Of course, they cut a lot out. My favorite part was when I first walked out and Jillian stated, “Wow, you don’t look at all like a pimp.” Was she expecting me to pull up in a Cadillac with a diamond-tipped cane?

Overall, they were surprisingly supportive of the sugar daddy lifestyle. For someone in my position, walking onto a daytime television show is basically throwing myself to the lions, but the hosts generally “got it”, and I might have even made a few converts in the crowd.

You can view the clip here: SugarSugar on The Doctors.

This all comes from an interview with her former stepfather, Stephen Laine, who went through the same thing with her mother.

“I have to pay her mom $1,800 every month, even though she lives in one of Kobe’s mansions.”

While I’m all for sugar babies getting as much financial stability as they can out of a sugar daddy dating relationship, being a predatory sugar baby consciously going into a full-blown marriage (kids, the works) just for a big payoff a decade down the road is severe. I certainly hope that’s not the case with Kobe Bryant’s wife, and this is all just a coincidence, but, ya know, like mother like daughter.

Good luck, Kobe!

SugarSugar.com announced this week that the sites would now be 100% for both Sugar Babys and Sugar Daddies. From what the guys running the site tell me is that member interaction has increased 500% and more sugar daddies and sugar babbies are hooking up for sugar daddy dates then ever.

In a statement on the company’s blog they said the following:

Big changes are afoot at SugarSugar. Many of you girls have already noticed that it’s now completely free to email Sugar Daddies. I did this for two reasons:

1) Why should you have to pay money to find a wealthy man? You’re the prize, afterall. They should be paying to meet you.

2) I get to cherry pick my favorite girls as soon as they join. A little selfish? Sure. But the reason I started this site was to meet more Sugar Babies, not make money from them. Hell, it’s the opposite — I want to spend money on them.

They claim “can have your own sugar daddy personal or sugar baby person for free with no credit card required – many sugar daddy sites claim to be free sugar daddy dating sites, but we are the real deal – 100% free – we aren’t even accepting credit cards right now!!”

In the meantime, the debate on weather sugar daddy dating should even be legal is starting to heat up. I recently caught this post on a law blog:

Allen Lichtenstein, a First Amendment attorney in Las Vegas, told HufPo that in order for an exchange to be considered prostitution there has to be a “meeting of the minds” that the arrangement involves an exchange of sex for money. It becomes a legal gray area, he said, when there is not an immediate exchange of cash for sex.

No matter which side of the sugar daddy dating debate you are on – one guy wants to ban it while another company is looking to make Sugar Daddy Peronals free!!

1) Why should you have to pay money to find a wealthy man? You’re the prize, afterall. They should be paying to meet you.

2) I get to cherry pick my favorite girls as soon as they join. A little selfish? Sure. But the reason I started this site was to meet more Sugar Babies, not make money from them. Hell, it’s the opposite — I want to spend money on them.

So let all your girlfriends know that SugarSugar.com is now 100% free — no credit card, no checking account verification, no sneaky trials like on other *ahem* SD dating sites I could mention. F-R-E-E. That’s right you can have your own sugar daddy personal or sugar baby person for free with no credit card required – many sugar daddy sites claim to be free sugar daddy dating sites, but we are the real deal – 100% free – we aren’t even accepting credit cards right now!!

Also, I’ve got room for another Sugar Baby around Scottsdale, AZ, who’d be interested in accompanying me on big nights out on the town. If you’re interested, you can email me personally at paul@sugarsugar.com, or, of course, find me on the site.

If there’s one thing a Sugar Daddy likes more than women, its money, so when he’s face down in his tuna tartar, stock thoughts scrolling on ticker tape over his lunch break, he won’t be looking up at you.

Our niche dating site, SugarSugar.com, where “romance meets finance,” announces the “Top Sugar Dating Hot Spots” in ten cities across the country. Uncovered in each of our top markets, compiled through online polling and responses via this blog, as well as member feedback, this list will help guide sugar daters to the right place at the right time, helping singles make that first connection with someone who could literally be the girl or guy next door.

Drum roll please….and the winners are:

Los Angeles – The Chateau Marmont

LA is known for flaunting its wealth and its women, and is a hot spot for industry execs, celebrity mingling, and some of the sexiest women and most generous men in the world. The landmark Chateau Marmont has long been known as the place celebs go to be bad, and visitors and partygoers alike tend to follow suit.

New York – Rose Bar

Few New York hot spots manage to stay that way, but this swanky lounge at the Gramercy Park Hotel has stood the test of time, and has been attracting the rich and famous for the past five years. Dress to impress and pray someone buys you that $20 cocktail.

Scottsdale – Ocean Club

Well heeled patrons flock to Mastro’s Ocean Club for the lavish food, service and ambiance. Splurge on dinner or head to the bar which features a scene of beautiful women, businessmen, casual couples and cougars galore.

Dallas – Rattlesnake Bar

Located inside the Ritz-Carlton Hotel, this bar’s patrons are a mixture of old money and new, and is frequented by athletes and businessmen. Don’t worry ladies, the valet is free, so put on your best duds and pull in proudly behind the Porches and Maseratis.

Miami – The Delano Hotel

There’s no place in South Beach quite like the Delano, and if you’re in need of a sugar daddy, The Delano is your best bet. Hosting rich men and beautiful women is the signature of the Rose Bar at this glamorous Miami landmark – which offers a quiet and elegant atmosphere in the midst of the frantic Miami nightlife.

Chicago – East Bank Club

A favorite of Chicago politicians, eager women and deep pocketed businessmen, this club is made for working up a sweat in the gym rather than the dance floor. However, with three bars – including a poolside lounge – there’s plenty of time for the beautiful people to mingle after their cardio.

Las Vegas – Bellagio Hotel

Though it’s not very hard to find a rich guy in the most money hungry city in the world, you’ll have the best luck at one of the many bars and lounges of Las Vegas’ landmark hotel – the Bellagio. Renowned for hosting the richest of the rich, the hotel’s Fontana Bar, Caramel, and Baccarat Bar are hot spots for finding a sugar date.

Houston – Vic & Anthony’s Steakhouse

With a combination of delectable food and beautiful ultra-contemporary decor, this posh eatery is heavily frequented by an attractive influential crowd. Hit the bar at happy hour to mingle with the post-work crowd, who aren’t in the middle of a business meeting.

Atlanta – Lumen at The Ritz-Carlton

Downtown Atlanta’s premier business address and luxurious oasis in the heart of the city houses the renowned lobby bar, Lumen. Serving up signature cocktails with live Jazz, Latin and Flamenco music, Lumen is a great place to spot sexy, wealthy singles after office hours.

Denver – Hotel Teatro

Located in downtown Colorado, this boutique hotel offers exquisite accommodations for the business traveler, and features they city’s only four-star, four-diamond restaurant by award-winning Chef and Restaurateur Devin Taylor. Want to catch a glimpse of wealth from around the world? Head over to Breckenridge Ski Resort to mingle with the old money on the slopes.

For more information about SugarSugar.com, or for interview requests, please feel free to contact me.

The young and saddened sugar baby walks away with a very large void. A void large enough to fit a Bentley, dog, and $90k engagement ring, which to date, the sugar baby also had the pleasure of taking with her. Who are the saps who went through this? Why, none other than Hugh Hefner and Crystal Harris of course!

This got me thinking– what if Hugh was my sugar daddy, or what if he was yours? Would I run too like Crystal Harris did? Probably. But if I didn’t, these would be 10 things to consider if he was my sugar daddy.

10 Things to Consider When Hugh Hefner is Your SD:

10. He may lock you in a basement.

Now this hasn’t been confirmed, but I can tell you if you’re 25 and he’s 85, your hot ass is not going to see the light of day, and just where can you find a lack of daylight? A basement.

9. Bedtime is 8pm, and wake-up is 4am.

Seniors, huh, always early to bed and early to rise! Think your inner clock can handle that?

8. Get used to Cary Grant films.

I once dated a SD who was only 25 years older than me and I watched enough black and white films to de-colorize my life more than I could handle. Colorless entertainment only seems good in small doses.

7. Hugh is not a drug you’ll be addicted to.

Some SDs draw you in with their distinction and manly smell where you’ll want to be around them as much as possible. Others, like Hugh, often have grey pubes and saggy balls. NOT the kind of saggy balls you want in your mouth… or your hand.

6. Pray to the Gods that you’re not allergic to silk.

One thing Hugh is always dressed in, surrounded by, and laying on? You guessed it, silk. Silk sheets, bath towels, paisley slippers and robes—yuck! Like nails to a chalkboard, silk is almost as offensive.

5. Ancient strains of dormant STDs.

As long as Hugh has been “the man”, he’s had and will continue to have, ANY woman. Don’t be surprised if the first STD that ever was, is graciously bestowed upon you. Is it a coincidence that the bunnies are always keeping it in the family there at the mansion? Once a bunny, always a bunny.

4. Long walks on the beach —I mean short strolls to the backyard.

Healthy for his age doesn’t mean healthy for YOUR age. You need to move, get out, spread your wings and fly!! Not going to happen if you live at the mansion, I mean—you’re in a basement, remember?

3. Know how to make a mean bowl of oatmeal.

What, you think bacon, eggs and moons over my hammy frequent the Hef’s breakfast du jour? Eh, eh—not in that age range girlie. It’s breaky sans salt, fat or flavor. Steel cut home made oatmeal is probably what the doctor ordered. So c’est la vie to gourmet breakfast in bed.

2. Learn how to read.

I know, I know—“read?” you say? Well, in a word, yes. Bid on some vintage Hooked on Phonics from Ebay (worked for me), start from the beginning and work your way up to Animal Farm, a 10^th grade read. The thing is, if you can’t go anywhere because Hugh has you in the basement and you guys are having a quiet evening at home, what is a girl to do? Eat?—No, no, no… you just can’t do that! Try reading, you never know, it might be *enjoyable!

*not a guarantee

1. Hire an attorney.

Using the allowance Hugh gives you, hire your very own attorney in the event that you decide to marry each other. You’ll want to walk away with more than a Bentley, ring and dog if things don’t work out.

Considering that average pornstar only get’s about 100-200$ to do a porn shoot – 50k is pretty good for a picture of your privates!!

Something makes me doubt that his wife id going to stick around, but judging from some of his pics on twitter and the surrounding scandal from his twitter shenanigans that I doubt Mr. Wiener will stay a married sugar daddy for long.

Couldn’t this this al have been avoided if he just joined a discreet sugar daddy site?

Oh well, line and learn Mr. Weiner and let the gossip continue!

Now back to biz as usual!