SugarDaddyForMe

The thing with sugar daddy relationships, mutual arrangements, and NSA connections is that they represent the best parts of relationships, the good stuff, the sweet stuff.

Sound too good to be true? It’s not. It’s a way of life, people gravitate toward it because — well who wouldn’t want all of the good parts of a relationship and none of the bad? (Are you scratching your head to ponder that?)

I compiled a list of reasons why sugar daddies choose a mutually beneficial relationship and why you should too! Here are great reasons to be a Sugar Daddy:

20. Bitches just ain’t worth the time anymore

19. Your last girlfriend/wife left you for someone more successful than you

18. You despise or are allergic to commitment

17. You will rule the world

16. Everyone around you will be envious and jealous

15. Other men will wonder what your secret is– don’t tell them

14. Think about it, man cave, 24/7/365

13. Gorgeous women will tell you you’re hot, even if you’re not

12. R-e-s-p-e-c-t, you’re doing what all men dream of doing

11. Other men look up to you

10. More women will want to date you

9. Hotter women will want to date you

8. Sugar babies do what their told, well, most of the time

7. You can finally feel like you’re Charlie Sheen. The winning Charlie Sheen

6. Sugar babies will try hard to look good for you at all times

5. Sugar babies will go home when you want them to

4. You don’t have to be rich- just generous with what you have

3. No more arguments about how fat she looks, your wandering eyes, or who the other woman is

2. A greater possibility of being in a threesome– if you’re into that sort of thing

1. Amazing sex with uninhibited sugar babies– and more of it!

Note: Sugar daddies beware, there are some sugar babies under the impression that they can be your no-sex platonic friend and you will buy them things.

What, their personalities and company are that amazing?!? Yeah right, maybe if you’re a 10!

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In preparation for Mistress Day, February 13th, not to be confused with Valentine’s Day, February 14th, SugarSugar.com compiled a list of the top contenders for our special award: Mistress of the Millennium (so far).

Vote below for your favorite mistress for the Mistress of the Millennium (so far)

What qualities do you think a mistress should have that makes her great?

• How she collects on the short-lived fame?
• The direction in which her life goes when she is found out?
• You decide what counts, you decide who should reign as the Mistress of the Millenium (so far)

Cast Your Vote Here

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The game of sugar daddy dating is not unlike the game of dating in general. There are things you have to learn, be it the hard way, along the way in order to succeed.

Now, for the record, I’m not a princess. I work hard for my money (day job), spend it wisely, and have an array of investments that keep me afloat and prepared for my future. I used to be much less mature with my finances, mostly because I made less and spent more (handbag fetish was partially to blame), but over a short amount of time, as sugar daddies have entered my life, I’ve learned from their spending habits!

One of the reasons I continue to sugar daddy date, mainly through SD specific dating sites like sugarsugar.com, is because wealthy men spend their money wisely, always finding ways to  cut corners in order to save more, and I love that! I have a thirst of knowledge in the way of finance that keeps me cumming (excuse me, coming) back for more.

Most of the sugar daddies I’ve known, whether I dated them or not, have a creative way about them surrounding their business ventures. Frankly, I’d much rather learn from a SD’s business failings than venture into those arenas myself. I’ll take the good, the bad, and the ugly from their experiences and use the information as I see fit in my own life.

Part of the game of life and dating is learning from your own, as well as other’s, mistakes. I have made plenty of my own mistakes while playing the sugar daddy dating game that I have learned from—believe me; I just want to share those lessons with other sugar babies so they don’t have to make the same mistakes, hopefully saving some precious time and embarrassment.  Just like me learning creative business and financial practices from sugar daddies, newer sugar babies can learn from my dating faux pas.

The way I see it is: in order to gain knowledge, you have to know which questions to ask—I ask savvy businessmen questions all-day long about the ways in which their financial choices aide or take away from the quality of their lifestyle. I hope that my sugar daddy dating choices can do the same for young sugar babies—ask and ye shall receive!

I haven’t been a sugar baby for long. In fact, I’m pretty new to the whole world and game of dating wealthy older men. It never occurred to me that I would find it so appealing! I’ve always been attracted to older good looking men (with gray hair), but I always assumed they were just crushes and wouldn’t ever go to the next level.

In my quest to find my perfect man or Mr Right, I found a lot of heartache. Men who I found attractive were looking for someone younger, and men who were attracted to me were, well older than I was looking for. Most of the men who were drawn to me already had been married or had kids. Since I am fresh out of college, I waffle with the idea of getting married and having kids—the nuclear family, so the idea of going on dates with men who have already had those experiences is hard to swallow. (gulp tee hee)

In my insecurity of feeling too old for the men I was initially drawn to, some of the older prospects were offering to help me out with grad school (which is about the cost of an arm and a leg, if you didn’t know) but then I was like, well what do they want in return I wonder?…

I responded to a sugar daddy (Mr. D) who was interested through an online sugar daddy dating website, we had pretty good rapport, considering I had no idea what he looked like, and he was 20 years older than me. I agreed to meet him (Mr. D), sight unseen, at a hip little local lounge for a drink. I tried not to be late (I even set my watch 20 min fast), but something made me late, as something always does, and I was 10 minutes behind schedule. He was patiently waiting for me, and he didn’t even bat an eye at my tardiness!

I was taken aback by how handsome Mr. D was, so much like the former crushes I always had! He was a complete gentleman, put together, and smelled so good when he leaned in to hug me “hello”. Our conversation went off without a hitch, and I jokingly asked him about what sort of arrangement it would take for him to help me go to grad school. In his mild-mannered way, he explained that it would be whatever I wanted it to be. He said that he liked the idea of helping me better myself, and that he thought I’d be busy doing the grad-school thing anyway, so he’d have plenty of time to have his own life… Sounds too good to be true, right?

I’m going to give it a try! After much conversation over multiple dates, Mr. D gave me a down payment toward the first semester of my first year of grad school! Woo hoo, we’ll see how this goes!

As a SD, I have read way too many blogs here about  “Pay per Play” arrangements between sugar daddies and sugar babies.  When it comes to me and my other SD friends, who are also wealthy men and have worked really hard for their money, it is not that type of relationship that they are seeking. Although wanting discretion, because some of us are married, we don’t want to date prostitutes, period.

I have been on a few other sugar daddy dating sites and have not found one that embodies exactly what I’m looking for.  I have met a few different girls here and there from some of the sugar daddy sites, and overall, what I have found is that no one really knows what they are looking for, honestly. I know what I want, and these sugar babies lack knowing what it is they want out of this.

Now, I don’t mind meeting a sugar baby who’s new to the game, but I just want to know if they are, in-fact, a newbie.  I’m not a free ride, I have wants and needs just like anyone else, and I really don’t want to be taken advantage of.  I don’t want to be asked for money when I meet a potential sugar baby for the first time, I really just want to get to know her, see if we are even compatible to begin with. Then we can talk arrangement.  This notion of when to ask for money from your sugar daddy should be answered by the fact of having real wants and needs, and being comfortable enough with yourself and your sugar daddy to ask them of him nicely.

I take care of my sugar babies because I don’t want to see them struggling, the mutually beneficial part of our relationship is that while I can help them out of some financial trouble, they can be company to me when I need to go out of town for business and want to show someone a place they haven’t been before. I really like being able to give that gift of showing someone the world, so to speak. I’m a knight in shining armor, I’m romantic, affectionate, and like a boyfriend or husband.  Except I’m the guy you want to spend your time with, not the guy you have to spend your time with. That’s how these types of relationships should work, right?

-Anonymous

SugarSugar.com

I know of a sugar daddy who seeks a mutually beneficial relationship. Well, he’s a rich geezer who loves young and super sexy women a whole lot. He is nice, quite friendly, and very generous. Everyone in the neighborhood calls him Sugar D or S Daddy. Judging by the nickname, you’ve probably figured that he’s not actually discreet about his relationships with pretty young college women. Oh well… we still love him.

Sugar D is a single affluent man looking for a sugar baby. His wife died a couple of years ago and he deserves to be happy, right. We really don’t mind his relationships with young college women since he is a total gentleman. And those young women are old enough to decide for themselves.

He kinda reminds me of the late George Burns. Yes, he loves cigars as well. And he puffs the finest Havanas his money can get. He is a funny old guy who loves to tell amazing stories and really hilarious jokes. When he’s not with his sugar baby, he invites us for poker and a couple of drinks.

This sugar daddy seeks a mutually beneficial relationship because he is all by himself now. His only child lives in Greece with his own family and he longs for companionship since he misses his wife very much. I think that he’s only looking for companionship. But if he does still engage in sex then Viagra must be doing wonders for him.