As a sugar daddy myself, I have run into a few snags along the way that have resulted in time wasted. My time, I imagine, is worth $500 an hour at least, so I have a real problem with wasting it on some of these sugar babies who look nothing like their picture, and want something completely different than their profile claims! These women, or young ladies, are so good at ‘pretending’ that they will say or do just about anything to get you to meet them in hopes of catching the ‘Big One’, problem is, after much disappointment and falsities, I am tired of it. As it turns out, as with most sugar daddy dating, it is extremely difficult to discern who is telling which truths and who is posting photos of their friend who is a model.
After many failed attempts to catch on to these women who insist on being less than truthful, I decided to call in the authorities from sugarsugar.com, sugar baby entrepreneur, Angelena. I told her exactly what I am looking for, and left the rest up to her. Well, she found some girls that she thought would fit my bill and I have a date with a young woman tonight who was hand-picked by Angelena. Depending on how tonight goes, this could prove to be a much better way to go about dating sugar babies.
I don’t know about yours, but my time is valuable, so it would behoove me not to waste it with some girl who wants something completely different than I do.
One of the biggest problems wealthy men have with being a sugar daddy is that they can’t always distinguish a mutually beneficial relationship from a normal relationship. They have trouble disconnecting the two. As a result, they go to a sugar daddy dating site like SugarSugar.com to find a sugar baby, and the next thing they know, they’re falling in love. Or at least, they think they’re falling in love.
I always try to emphasize to new sugar daddies and new sugar babies that the point of a mutually beneficial relationship is to stop dating as though it was something meant to lead toward marriage, and start dating simply to have the benefits of dating. But it’s a strange concept for a lot of people to grasp.
So if you are one of those many wealthy men who falls in love with a sugar baby, make sure you ask yourself a few important questions before you pop The Question.
First, ask yourself if you genuinely want a marriage, or if you’re just enjoying the lust a little too much and not thinking straight. Remember, as soon as you marry your sugar baby, she’s no longer your sugar baby. She becomes your wife.
Second, make sure she genuinely has feelings for you. Sugar babies are experts at making men feel loved. That doesn’t mean she loves you. She probably really likes you and enjoys you, but that doesn’t mean she wants to marry you.
And third, be sure that being her sugar daddy benefactor now isn’t going to turn into you paying alimony down the road. While they’re sugar babies, they’re tied to you. But if they become a wife, they can divorce you. In that case, you get none of the perks of a mutually beneficial relationship, but you get all of the expenses.
Here’s a controversial topic I’ve run into a few times while using SugarSugar.com: what if your online sugar baby has a regular boyfriend? Some sugar babies do keep regular boyfriends their age. I know it seems a bit strange, but really, who am I to judge? The bigger problem is that sometimes these boyfriends don’t realize their girlfriends are into wealthy men and keep around a rich benefactor or two to help pay the bills. Chances are that muscular young frat boy won’t be too happy to find out the reason she always volunteers to pay for dinner is that she’s using the credit card from her online sugar daddy.
Luckily for most of us millionaire sugar daddies, we’re fairly well versed in dealing with hormonally-pumped young men looking to fight over a girl. That is to say, while I might not be able to fight him, the bouncer at the club where he attacks me is always going to be more than happy to put a hole in the wall with his head (especially when I toss him a few hundred bucks for it). But whether or not you’re interested in a sugar baby who feels like she needs to get fulfillment from a boyfriend her age is a bit of a personal question.
My concern, being the rich benefactor, is that I didn’t start sugar baby dating in order to support the boyfriends of my sugar babies. So if I know the sugar baby I’m seeing has a boyfriend her age, I tend to give her more gifts and less cash. I also tend to make sure I take her to places her boyfriend can’t afford. Not that I don’t want to watch the bouncer shove his head into a wall. I just don’t want the busted wall to result in a bust of an evening when my sugar baby decides to tend to his needs instead of mine.
A lot of the men I’ve talked to about being a millionaire sugar daddy like to give me the same excuse. They tell me they don’t want some girl, even if she is a sexy girl, being a freeloader and living off their rich benefactors. The problem is, these men are completely misunderstanding how the online sugar baby sites work. Sugar baby dating online isn’t like trying to find a sugar baby in a bar. Using a site like SugarSugar.com allows the sugar daddy to browse hundreds of sugar baby profiles and find the sugar baby that’s right for him.
And guess what… there’s no one specific kind of sugar baby out there. In fact, my personal sugar baby preference when I’m in a mutually beneficial relationship is to date a sugar baby who is also a professional. That’s right… plenty of professional women are sugar babies, too. They have full time jobs, and they have careers. But they’re often new in their careers, meaning they’re not getting paid much. So while someday down the road they might become six-figure and seven-figure executives in their own right, right now, they want to meat millionaires online who can take care of them and help them get through the growing pains of corporate America.
In case you’re one of those many wealthy men who concerned about sugar babies being freeloaders or somehow taking advantage of you, stop worrying and start trying. You’ll quickly discover when you find a sugar baby online that every sugar baby is unique. And just like in all forms of dating, when you’re sugar baby dating, you need to find the sugar baby that’s right for you.
You’ll probably remember I wrote a post about sugar baby dating on the Tyra Show. And before that, Dr. Phil did a sugar baby dating show as well. What do all of these sugar daddy dating specials about online sugar daddy dating tell us? They tell us that Trash TV loves sugar babies.
I can’t blame them. I love sugar babies, too, but for different reasons. Still, the Trash TV infatuation with sugar babies and sugar daddy dating sites like SugarSugar.com presents a rare instance where most of us who are actually sugar daddies or sugar babies are proud of the recognition. We’re proud of the opportunity to tell our side of the story. People who have never tried to maintain a mutually beneficial relationship judge sugar babies and sugar daddies, but shows like Tyra and Dr. Phil give us the opportunity to explain just how much sense mutually beneficial relationships actually make. It gives us a public forum in which we can voice the logic. And when we have that opportunity, sugar daddy relationships start to make sense. People who hear me explain why I date sugar babies often have SugarSugar.com memberships within days. When that scale gets magnified to a national television audience… it just means more sugar babies for me to choose from.
So with that logic, you might start noticing SugarSugar.com ads appearing in those same Trash TV shows that try to exploit sugar babies. Specifically, SugarSugar.com is running sugar daddy dating ads on the Jerry Springer show. It only makes sense, right? Trash TV tries to exploit sugar babies and sugar daddies, we explain ourselves on those shows and it makes sense to people, and then we use those same programs to show people how they can find a mutually beneficial relationship.
If you’ve found SugarSugar.com thanks to the Jerry Springer ads, let me be the first to welcome you to the most rewarding kind of online dating you’ll find. Sign up for a SugarSugar.com membership, find a sugar baby or find a millionaire sugar daddy online, and see why mutually beneficial relationships just make more sense.
I saw a comment on my sugar baby dating one-nighters post from Monday and I wanted to follow up on it. Kat, the (presumably hot, hot, hot sugar baby) poster, wrote, “sugar baby dating sites usually just say it like it is!” I like that perspective. I like that perspective a lot. That’s exactly why I’m a sugar daddy, that’s exactly why I believe in sugar baby dating, and that’s why I use sugar daddy dating sites like SugarSugar.com. To me, relationships are always financial transactions. The difference is the openness about that transaction.
Really ask yourself what distinguishes the transaction of a mutually beneficial relationship between a rich benefactor and his sugar baby when compared to the transaction of a husband and a housewife. In the case of the latter, doesn’t the husband provide money and goods in return for companionship and services? How is that any different than a millionaire sugar daddy giving his sugar baby a nice purse or helping her with her mortgage?
The big differences, to me, are age and families. In the case of a “traditional” husband and wife, the spouses are of similar ages and are interested in having a family with kids. Someone trying to convince me that a traditional relationship is better than a mutually beneficial relationship is going to have to convince me I should prefer and older (and less attractive) woman to have sex with, and I should spend most of my income and free time on smelly, dirty, needy children? Good luck convincing me of that argument.
Mind you, I’m not trying to discourage the traditional marriage route. If that’s your thing, by all means… enjoy! But if you want to sleep with beautiful women and not have to worry about being responsible for other people, maybe you should become a sugar daddy.
I realized in my last post about sugar baby dating one-nighters I never really finished my story about the actual sugar baby I’d grabbed off of SugarSugar. So, as I was saying, I was in Chicago for a big meeting. A couple days before, I went to SugarSugar.com and searched for sugar babies in Chicago. I found a few promising ones, sent out emails explaining that I’d be in town for a few days and needed company. Within minutes, I had six responses (I guess there are a lot of Chicago sugar babies looking for wealth men). I read through them and chose the one who looked the most interesting.
Her name was Lindsey. Well… that’s what she said it was. She was Asian (I’ve got a bit of an Asian fetish), and I never believe Asians with American names. But whatever… “Lindsey” is easier than “Fu Mooung Louk” or whatever it could have been.So Lindsey showed up at my hotel around 6:30. I brought her up to the room and we had some pre-dinner drinks. And pre-dinner dessert…
Then I took her to the party. It was in the ballroom of the same hotel. Most of you probably know how these work. The same catered filet, the same haggard DJ, etc. But luckily, they all have the same fully stocked open bar. So Lindsey and I drank the night away… she even got that good good Asian alcohol glow about her. I’m not much of a dancer, but I happily let her grind her way through the horny men away from their wives while I lazily sipped my Jack and soda. Remember… that’s the good thing about Sugar Baby dating… no need to be jealous. At the end of the night, I knew she was coming back to my hotel room because I was the millionaire sugar daddy.
She did come back to my room. We made use of the king size bed (and the room’s jacuzzi tub). And in the morning I had to be up and out early for a meeting. I left her sleeping, left money for cab fare, as well as enough to let her buy herself a nice thank you gift from me, and that was it. By the time I got back to my room later in the day, Lindsey was gone.
So if you’re reading this Lindsey in Chicago… thanks for adding a little Asian spice to my otherwise dull Chicago conference!
Having finished my sugar daddy dating advice lists last Friday, it seems only fair to slow up on the sugar baby dating tips. Instead, I’ll tell you about a sugar baby date one-nighter I had on Saturday night. While a lot of people just assume a mutually beneficial relationship has to be some sort of long term thing, that’s actually not the case at all. In this particular instance, I was traveling. I was in Chicago for a conference, the event had one of those cheesy parties with tons of people you don’t know (or care to know), but lots of booze. So I went on to SugarSugar and found myself a date for the evening.
That’s what a lot of online sugar babies are good for… the “one night of fun” thing. I mean, you can definitely also find a long lasting and fulfilling mutually beneficial relationship. But if you need company for an evening, go the sugar baby dating route, and you won’t be sorry. The reason is the “in between” of all that dating one sugar baby or dating one millionaire sugar daddy versus dating multiples. “One nighter,” as I like to call them, give you a lot of the perks of dating multiple sugar babies or sugar daddies without the drawbacks. Say, for example, you’re a sugar baby with a jealous rich benefactor who doesn’t want you dating other guys (since there’s a chance of them running in similar social circles). So instead of dating inside the area you live, you pick up one-nighters flying into town, show them a good time, and in turn, you get the benefits of having more wealthy men in your life without jeopardizing the one you do have.
Similarly, if you’re a wealthy man who isn’t looking for anything long term, maybe even along-term mutually beneficial relationship isn’t for you. At the same time, occasionally you still need affection and companionship, and that’s exactly what sugar baby one-nighters are great for. Get what you need and get it when you need it. Isn’t that the most beneficial kind of relationship a person can have?
In my seemingly exhaustive lists of pros/cons for the amount of wealthy men to date (or sugar babies to date), we’ve reached our last list. So if you’re a SugarSugar.com sugar baby who uses this sugar daddy dating site to find as many sugar daddies as possible, here are a few things to keep in mind about having multiple sugar daddies:
- All men get at least a little jealous. Some will tell you they don’t, but they’re lying. So if you decide you need to date wealthy men instead of just one wealthy man, you’d better be prepared for some pissing matches. And if there’s one thing I know about pissing matches, no matter who wins, everyone ends up covered in piss. (Of course… you might like that. If so… maybe give me a call? Just throwing it out there…)
- Multiple wealthy men might also mean multiple wealthy men wives. If all of your rich benefactors are also extra marital dating, you might want to use some of that extra money you’re bringing in every month to hire a bodyguard.
- If your millionaire sugar daddy let’s you keep more than one sugar daddy, chances are he’s dating multiple sugar babies. While you might not mind him having other mutually beneficial relationships, you might want to consider that the more money your rich benefactor spends on his other sugar babies means he has less money to spend on you.
Almost done with my sugar daddy dating (and sugar baby dating) pros/cons lists… I swear. Just two more sugar daddy dating articles to go. But hey, that’s what I was asked to write about on SugarSugar.com If you want to read about oil spills, I’m sure CNN has some delightfully unbiased and informative articles. But if you want mutually beneficial relationship advice, sugar baby dating advice, or any other sorts of sugar daddy relationship information, that’s what I’m here for. So, here they are… the benefits of dating multiple sugar daddies.
- If one millionaire sugar daddy equals X number of expensive gifts, logically, having multiple millionaire sugar daddies should equal the number of expensive gifts multiplied by the number of sugar daddy relationships you can maintain. It’s simple math, right?
- Having multiple wealthy men supporting you means if one relationship goes sour (for example… perhaps he’s extra marital dating and his wife finds out), you’re not left without a rich benefactor.
- Quite simply, dating multiple sugar daddies can mean more excitement. These are, after all, wealthy men, which means they’ll be able to give you opportunities you otherwise might not be able to afford. Imagine flying in his private jet. Imagine going on his yacht. Imagine traveling to tropical paradises. Let’s be honest… as a sugar baby who wants to be spoiled, you can never have too many private jets, yachts, and tropical paradises in your life. You just can’t.
