I’ve dated a lot of average men in my day. By “average” I don’t necessarily mean ugly or poor. I just mean that millionaires are a different breed. And trust me, when you meet a millionaire, you’ll see what I mean.
For example, real wealthy men have a sort of confidence that an average man just can’t have. They’re sure of themselves in ways you’re average Tom, Dick, or Harry just never will be.
Something else you’ll notice when you date a millionaire sugar daddy is that he’s probably got a lot more going on in his head than an average man. I don’t mean crazy things. I just mean that, in order to be successful, he’s probably learned to wrap his mind completely around an idea or a problem, and as a result, he’ll seem like he’s always thinking.
I’m writing this post just to give you a sort of heads up so when you do find your first millionaire sugar daddy on SugarSugar.com, you don’t try to treat him like an average man. He’ll be anything but average.
I saw when I was reading the SugarSugar.com blog that Clyde had spent a few posts discussing whether or not to date multiple sugar daddies. So I wanted to put in my two cents on that topic since I’ve had a bit more experience than him juggling sugar daddies.
Back in the old days before I could use a sugar daddy dating site like SugarSugar.com, I was lucky enough to have one sugar daddy. I would never have even considered juggling multiple sugar daddies. But now, thanks to SugarSugar.com, A sugar baby like me can have multiple wealthy men acting as her millionaire sugar daddy. But there’s only one of me and, well, I’ve had up to seven of them at once, so giving enough attention to each one can get tricky.
First of all, juggling multiple sugar daddies isn’t easy. And honestly, for most girls, one sugar daddy benefactor is enough. I got to that seven number in my earlier days of discovering online sugar daddy dating because these sugar daddy sites made it so easy to find a sugar daddy. But I wouldn’t do it again. These days I tend to keep two, and at most three. Any more sugar daddies than that and it’s exhausting.
My advice to you on whether or not to have multiple sugar daddies is to consider how demanding each one is. If one sugar daddy is trying to see you just about every night, you should probably stick with one (and expect him to compensate you appropriately… it is, after all, a mutually beneficial relationship). However, if one of your sugar daddies is married, you can probably manage more since he won’t always be able to see you.
A lot of people just assume a mutually beneficial relationship means the sugar baby puts out. We fuck our rich benefactors. While that’s true, you should know sex isn’t a requirement in a mutually beneficial relationship. Nor do I ever feel obligated to have sex. I’ll fuck my millionaire sugar daddy because I want to… because I like it. Oh… and I’ll be damn good.
But a mutually beneficial relationship is about more than just the sex. In general, sugar daddies on SugarSugar.com are looking for companionship. Maybe they’re involved in extra marital dating because they’re not being fulfilled by their wives. Or maybe they’re single and just need to be able to have a good time without all the other relationship drama. Remember, a millionaire sugar daddy is going to be a successful man, so chances are he’s busy and can’t deal with all the little shit most other people have to worry about in a relationship.
Your responsibility, as the sugar baby, is to make sure he feels like he’s benefiting from being your sugar daddy. If that means sex, you should be the best lay he’s ever had. But if that means talking about life until 3 AM, you should be good at that, too.
With all the sugar daddy personals on SugarSugar.com, it can be easy to find a sugar daddy, but hard to choose a good sugar daddy. Here are my top 3 tips on what to look for when looking for sugar daddy personals to respond to:
- Tip 1: If a millionaire sugar daddy tries to convince you of how much money he has, he probably doesn’t have enough money.
- Tip 2: Don’t fall for the “likes to travel” line. I feel like every sugar daddy personal says how the sugar daddy loves to travel. That may or may not be true, but it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be going with him.
- Tip 3: The best ones are already taken. But don’t worry, mutually beneficial relationships aren’t like marriages. Just because the best rich benefactors are taken it doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t have them as well. But you might want to be prepared to know you’re not the only horse in his stable. But treat him right, and maybe you can be…
Hey all! I’m Carmen. I’m a regular sugar baby here on SugarSugar.com, and I’ve been a sugar baby for a little over five years now. The SugarSugar blog wanted sugar daddy dating advice from a real sugar baby, they asked me, and obviously I said sure, so here I am!
A little about me to get you started (and to get you boys dreaming). I’m a 5’4”, 114 pound brunette with c-cups and dimples. Is that enough for your imagination? I obviously can’t give away too much about exactly who I am since some of my rich benefactors want to stay discreet. But who knows… if this sugar baby blogger thing works out, maybe I won’t need the support of a millionaire sugar daddy anymore. Maybe I’ll become a sugar mama!
Look for my newest sugar daddy dating advice blogs regularly posted here, on the SugarSugar blog, and see if you can find me on SugarSugar.com. I’ll be dropping enough hints so that when you meet me, you’ll know it’s me…
