I asked my sugar daddy once why he wanted to have a sugar baby. Wasn’t he happy with his wife? He told me that he loves his wife very much. But there are certain things she doesn’t want to do anymore due to her age.
I remember him telling me, “You know when I was about your age, my girlfriend left me for a sugar daddy!” So I thought, “What’s this, is this some kind of revenge?” Well my sugar daddy assured me that our mutually beneficial relationship was not based on revenge. In fact, he told me that when he became a sugar daddy himself he understood why his girlfriend left him for a sugar daddy.
Some sugar daddies may already be too old, but they still have something to show before they kick the bucket. You can call it their last hurrah! My sugar daddy knew he didn’t have a lot of time left here on earth. He said if he left this life, he wanted to leave happy. He can’t bring his wealth with him so he’s sharing some of it with me, which was really thoughtful of him.
He was a charmer. Made me laugh all the time and was quite generous. He told me that he was once against sugar daddies. He said, “My girlfriend left me for a sugar daddy and I cursed her for it. But now I realize that sugar daddies are there to help unfortunate sugar babies in need.” He finished with, “And this is why we are together now. I just want to help and enjoy your company as long as it lasts.” Then he planted a tender kiss on my lips.
That’s the last thing I remember about him. He succumbed to cancer and he’s in the afterlife right now. I can never forget the beautiful memories he shared with me. Now, I’m looking for a new sugar daddy at www.sugarsugar.com. I just hope that I can find a sugar daddy as gentle, as generous, and as kind as my late sugar daddy. I miss him a lot.
I can’t understand why some men settle for a fuck-doll as companionship when a sugar baby seeks a mutually beneficial relationship. I mean, duh, are these guys really such losers? Anyway, why should I waste my beauty on these pervs when a real man like my sugar daddy can rock my world.
So this is for the sugar baby who seeks a mutually beneficial relationship. You know damn well that only a sugar daddy fits this kind of special relationship. And if you are in the process of choosing a sugar daddy, you need to make sure that this sugar daddy is the generous kind.
Why do you think we seek such a relationship? A sugar baby seeks a mutually beneficial relationship for a lot of reasons. And our top reason would be security. Frankly, security is actually the top concern of most of us women. So it wouldn’t be a surprise if this is our top priority when looking for a relationship, whether in sugar daddy dating or not.
If you are a sugar baby and you are currently looking for a sugar daddy you can have a mutually beneficial relationship with, I suggest you check out www.sugarsugar.com.. This site is really awesome. This is where my sugar daddy and I met. Now, we are inseprable. We always travel and do things together. My sugar daddy is divorced and he’s enjoying his freedom so much right now. Our next destination is going diving in Maldives. Sugar daddy dating is really great, so I suggest you stop being the fuck-doll of some loser, and start being the sugar baby of a millionaire sugar daddy.
One of the biggest problems wealthy men have with being a sugar daddy is that they can’t always distinguish a mutually beneficial relationship from a normal relationship. They have trouble disconnecting the two. As a result, they go to a sugar daddy dating site like SugarSugar.com to find a sugar baby, and the next thing they know, they’re falling in love. Or at least, they think they’re falling in love.
I always try to emphasize to new sugar daddies and new sugar babies that the point of a mutually beneficial relationship is to stop dating as though it was something meant to lead toward marriage, and start dating simply to have the benefits of dating. But it’s a strange concept for a lot of people to grasp.
So if you are one of those many wealthy men who falls in love with a sugar baby, make sure you ask yourself a few important questions before you pop The Question.
First, ask yourself if you genuinely want a marriage, or if you’re just enjoying the lust a little too much and not thinking straight. Remember, as soon as you marry your sugar baby, she’s no longer your sugar baby. She becomes your wife.
Second, make sure she genuinely has feelings for you. Sugar babies are experts at making men feel loved. That doesn’t mean she loves you. She probably really likes you and enjoys you, but that doesn’t mean she wants to marry you.
And third, be sure that being her sugar daddy benefactor now isn’t going to turn into you paying alimony down the road. While they’re sugar babies, they’re tied to you. But if they become a wife, they can divorce you. In that case, you get none of the perks of a mutually beneficial relationship, but you get all of the expenses.
I saw when I was reading the SugarSugar.com blog that Clyde had spent a few posts discussing whether or not to date multiple sugar daddies. So I wanted to put in my two cents on that topic since I’ve had a bit more experience than him juggling sugar daddies.
Back in the old days before I could use a sugar daddy dating site like SugarSugar.com, I was lucky enough to have one sugar daddy. I would never have even considered juggling multiple sugar daddies. But now, thanks to SugarSugar.com, A sugar baby like me can have multiple wealthy men acting as her millionaire sugar daddy. But there’s only one of me and, well, I’ve had up to seven of them at once, so giving enough attention to each one can get tricky.
First of all, juggling multiple sugar daddies isn’t easy. And honestly, for most girls, one sugar daddy benefactor is enough. I got to that seven number in my earlier days of discovering online sugar daddy dating because these sugar daddy sites made it so easy to find a sugar daddy. But I wouldn’t do it again. These days I tend to keep two, and at most three. Any more sugar daddies than that and it’s exhausting.
My advice to you on whether or not to have multiple sugar daddies is to consider how demanding each one is. If one sugar daddy is trying to see you just about every night, you should probably stick with one (and expect him to compensate you appropriately… it is, after all, a mutually beneficial relationship). However, if one of your sugar daddies is married, you can probably manage more since he won’t always be able to see you.
Here’s a controversial topic I’ve run into a few times while using SugarSugar.com: what if your online sugar baby has a regular boyfriend? Some sugar babies do keep regular boyfriends their age. I know it seems a bit strange, but really, who am I to judge? The bigger problem is that sometimes these boyfriends don’t realize their girlfriends are into wealthy men and keep around a rich benefactor or two to help pay the bills. Chances are that muscular young frat boy won’t be too happy to find out the reason she always volunteers to pay for dinner is that she’s using the credit card from her online sugar daddy.
Luckily for most of us millionaire sugar daddies, we’re fairly well versed in dealing with hormonally-pumped young men looking to fight over a girl. That is to say, while I might not be able to fight him, the bouncer at the club where he attacks me is always going to be more than happy to put a hole in the wall with his head (especially when I toss him a few hundred bucks for it). But whether or not you’re interested in a sugar baby who feels like she needs to get fulfillment from a boyfriend her age is a bit of a personal question.
My concern, being the rich benefactor, is that I didn’t start sugar baby dating in order to support the boyfriends of my sugar babies. So if I know the sugar baby I’m seeing has a boyfriend her age, I tend to give her more gifts and less cash. I also tend to make sure I take her to places her boyfriend can’t afford. Not that I don’t want to watch the bouncer shove his head into a wall. I just don’t want the busted wall to result in a bust of an evening when my sugar baby decides to tend to his needs instead of mine.
A lot of people just assume a mutually beneficial relationship means the sugar baby puts out. We fuck our rich benefactors. While that’s true, you should know sex isn’t a requirement in a mutually beneficial relationship. Nor do I ever feel obligated to have sex. I’ll fuck my millionaire sugar daddy because I want to… because I like it. Oh… and I’ll be damn good.
But a mutually beneficial relationship is about more than just the sex. In general, sugar daddies on SugarSugar.com are looking for companionship. Maybe they’re involved in extra marital dating because they’re not being fulfilled by their wives. Or maybe they’re single and just need to be able to have a good time without all the other relationship drama. Remember, a millionaire sugar daddy is going to be a successful man, so chances are he’s busy and can’t deal with all the little shit most other people have to worry about in a relationship.
Your responsibility, as the sugar baby, is to make sure he feels like he’s benefiting from being your sugar daddy. If that means sex, you should be the best lay he’s ever had. But if that means talking about life until 3 AM, you should be good at that, too.
A lot of the men I’ve talked to about being a millionaire sugar daddy like to give me the same excuse. They tell me they don’t want some girl, even if she is a sexy girl, being a freeloader and living off their rich benefactors. The problem is, these men are completely misunderstanding how the online sugar baby sites work. Sugar baby dating online isn’t like trying to find a sugar baby in a bar. Using a site like SugarSugar.com allows the sugar daddy to browse hundreds of sugar baby profiles and find the sugar baby that’s right for him.
And guess what… there’s no one specific kind of sugar baby out there. In fact, my personal sugar baby preference when I’m in a mutually beneficial relationship is to date a sugar baby who is also a professional. That’s right… plenty of professional women are sugar babies, too. They have full time jobs, and they have careers. But they’re often new in their careers, meaning they’re not getting paid much. So while someday down the road they might become six-figure and seven-figure executives in their own right, right now, they want to meat millionaires online who can take care of them and help them get through the growing pains of corporate America.
In case you’re one of those many wealthy men who concerned about sugar babies being freeloaders or somehow taking advantage of you, stop worrying and start trying. You’ll quickly discover when you find a sugar baby online that every sugar baby is unique. And just like in all forms of dating, when you’re sugar baby dating, you need to find the sugar baby that’s right for you.
With all the sugar daddy personals on SugarSugar.com, it can be easy to find a sugar daddy, but hard to choose a good sugar daddy. Here are my top 3 tips on what to look for when looking for sugar daddy personals to respond to:
- Tip 1: If a millionaire sugar daddy tries to convince you of how much money he has, he probably doesn’t have enough money.
- Tip 2: Don’t fall for the “likes to travel” line. I feel like every sugar daddy personal says how the sugar daddy loves to travel. That may or may not be true, but it doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be going with him.
- Tip 3: The best ones are already taken. But don’t worry, mutually beneficial relationships aren’t like marriages. Just because the best rich benefactors are taken it doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t have them as well. But you might want to be prepared to know you’re not the only horse in his stable. But treat him right, and maybe you can be…
Hey all! I’m Carmen. I’m a regular sugar baby here on SugarSugar.com, and I’ve been a sugar baby for a little over five years now. The SugarSugar blog wanted sugar daddy dating advice from a real sugar baby, they asked me, and obviously I said sure, so here I am!
A little about me to get you started (and to get you boys dreaming). I’m a 5’4”, 114 pound brunette with c-cups and dimples. Is that enough for your imagination? I obviously can’t give away too much about exactly who I am since some of my rich benefactors want to stay discreet. But who knows… if this sugar baby blogger thing works out, maybe I won’t need the support of a millionaire sugar daddy anymore. Maybe I’ll become a sugar mama!
Look for my newest sugar daddy dating advice blogs regularly posted here, on the SugarSugar blog, and see if you can find me on SugarSugar.com. I’ll be dropping enough hints so that when you meet me, you’ll know it’s me…
Finding true love is not that easy. But having a mutually beneficial relationship is not that hard to get. So let us show you how to find a mutually beneficial relationship. It’s quite easy, actually, all you need to do is go to sugar daddy dating sites. To make things even easier for you, let me suggest an awesome site where I have a profile myself. Go to www.sugarsugar.com and enjoy hunting for someone you can have a mutually beneficial relationship with.
So why should you go for this kind of relationship? It is said that all good men are either in a relationship, already married, or have been ordained as priests. We can’t deny that most sugar daddies are already committed to someone. And these sugar daddies are also looking for a different flavor. So there’s no other choice but to have a special agreement with married sugar daddies. It’s better this way than to break up families. Sharing is the best way to go. Just my two cents.
Now you know how to find a mutually beneficial relationship and why this kind of relationship is actually better than the usual relationships we all know and get tired of. So it’s time for you to make your move and start sugar daddy or sugar baby dating.
